{"id":14414,"date":"2021-07-22T17:01:56","date_gmt":"2021-07-22T23:01:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/niet-gecategoriseerd\/waarom-kinderen-jengelen-omdat-het-werkt\/"},"modified":"2025-04-23T00:11:00","modified_gmt":"2025-04-22T22:11:00","slug":"waarom-kinderen-jengelen-omdat-het-werkt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/nl\/sociaal-emotioneel-gedrag\/waarom-kinderen-jengelen-omdat-het-werkt\/","title":{"rendered":"Kinderen zeuren omdat&#8230; het werkt"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Op de leeftijd van 2 jaar maakt je kind geen bewuste keuze om te zeuren, het gebeurt gewoon. Ze hebben maar zoveel manieren om te krijgen wat ze willen en zeuren trekt je aandacht \ud83d\ude43 Onderzoek toont aan dat ouders sterker reageren op zeuren dan op bijna elk ander geluid, inclusief huilen en schreeuwen. Maar door bewuster te zijn over hoe je dat doet, kan je peuter betere manieren leren om je aandacht te krijgen.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Hier zijn een paar manieren om het gezeur van je kind voor te zijn:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sta stil bij patronen<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Zeurt je kind vaak op bepaalde momenten van de dag of als het honger heeft, overprikkeld of moe is? Een tussendoortje, rustig spelen of eerder naar bed gaan kan de onderliggende problemen die vaak tot zeuren leiden verminderen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Luister naar hem<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Je 2-jarige is dol op je aandacht, dus telefoongesprekken, gesprekken met volwassenen of andere taken die je probeert af te krijgen, kunnen vaak aanleiding geven tot zeuren. Het belangrijkste is om je kind te laten weten dat het je wel degelijk kan schelen wat hij te zeggen heeft, zonder van het zeuren een effectief middel te maken. Probeer te zeggen: &#8220;Ik merk dat je mijn aandacht wilt. Zodra ik hier klaar ben, ben ik klaar om naar je te luisteren.&#8221;  <\/p>\n\n\n<div id=\"lightbox-inline-form-68a05c45-a21e-417c-9c1c-03aec4f4b7b5\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Leer ze een andere manier om te vragen<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Als je kind vaak zeurt, ga dan op zijn of haar niveau zitten en zeg: &#8220;Laten we nog een keer oefenen om het met je krachtige stem te vragen.&#8221; Modelleer een rustig, duidelijk verzoek: &#8220;Mama, mogen we spelen?&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Herinner ze eraan wat ze moeten doen als ze de volgende keer weer zeuren: &#8220;Oh, die stem doet pijn aan mijn oren. Kun je het nog eens proberen met je sterke stem? Wat heb je nodig?&#8221;    <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Als je kind zeurt om iets specifieks dat je hem niet van plan bent te geven, probeer dan vriendelijk maar vastberaden te antwoorden en blijf bij je antwoord &#8211; zelfs als hij stopt met zeuren. Door erop aan te dringen dat ze het op een andere manier vragen, zullen ze snel merken dat hun krachtige stem niet echt werkt \ud83d\ude43<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Onthoud dat de meeste kinderen zeuren<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Jammeren, zeuren, en drammen: het hoort er allemaal bij. Het is misschien moeilijk om hier troost uit te putten als je kind vaak of in het openbaar zeurt, maar hun gedrag is geen weerspiegeling van hun aanleg of van jouw opvoeding. Het is een veelvoorkomende fase in de ontwikkeling van een kind. 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