{"id":14102,"date":"2021-07-22T06:05:20","date_gmt":"2021-07-22T12:05:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/niet-gecategoriseerd\/maand-15-de-dos-en-donts-van-nee-zeggen-%f0%9f%98%89\/"},"modified":"2025-04-21T23:53:15","modified_gmt":"2025-04-21T21:53:15","slug":"de-dos-en-donts-van-nee-zeggen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/nl\/kinderontwikkeling\/de-dos-en-donts-van-nee-zeggen\/","title":{"rendered":"De do\u2019s en don\u2019ts van \u2018nee\u2019 zeggen \ud83d\ude09"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Wanneer je tegen je peuter zegt: \u201cvoorzichtig, niet knoeien!\u201d, breng je hem misschien juist op het idee<\/em> om te knoeien. Waarschijnlijk is \u201cknoeien!\u201d het enige wat hij gehoord heeft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Waarom het belangrijk is om minder vaak ‘nee’ te zeggen:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

De woorden \u2018nee\u2019, \u2018niet doen\u2019 en \u2018mag niet\u2019 gebruik je als ouder van een peuter waarschijnlijk dagelijks instinctief, maar wist je dat je nog steeds duidelijke grenzen kunt stellen zonder deze woorden continu te gebruiken? Het doel van minder vaak \u2018nee\u2019 zeggen is om je peuter af te leiden van iets wat je niet wil dat hij doet, naar iets wat je wel<\/em> wil.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Zo zeg je minder vaak ‘nee’ tegen je peuter:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Gebruik positieve woorden<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Wanneer je positieve woorden gebruikt, leert je peuter problemen oplossen en kritisch denken. Hij kan zich nu richten op alle mogelijkheden van wat hij wel<\/em> kan doen, in plaats van op wat hij niet mag doen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Verander je woordkeuze<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

In plaats van \u201cvoorzichtig, niet knoeien!\u201d kun je bijvoorbeeld zeggen: \u201cwat goed dat je twee handen gebruikt om de melk in je beker te houden\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Omschrijf wat je wil<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Uit onderzoek is gebleken dat wij als volwassenen maar gedeeltelijk naar zinnen luisteren, en peuters horen zelfs n\u00f3g minder. Door het gedrag te beschrijven dat je wel wil zien, hoef je niet te benoemen welk gedrag je juist niet wil zien. Laat je peuter zoveel mogelijk zien wat je wil dat hij doet: \u201czo kun je de hond zachtjes aaien\u201d (in plaats van aan zijn staart trekken), of \u201czo kun je de blokken opstapelen\u201d (in plaats van ermee gooien).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Laat je kind niet immuun worden<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Als je te vaak \u2018nee\u2019 zegt, kan het woord de betekenis kwijtraken voor je peuter. Met andere woorden, dan wordt hij er immuun voor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leg uit waarom<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Wanneer je je peuter uitlegt waarom iets niet kan of mag, leert hij op den duur betere keuzes maken. Zeg bijvoorbeeld: \u201cdoor onze schoenen uit te trekken wanneer we binnenkomen, houden we de vloer schoon\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Erken de gevoelens van je kind<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Wanneer je kind in de winkel iets heel graag wil hebben, zeg dan niet \u201cnee, dat mag je niet hebben\u201d, maar bijvoorbeeld \u201cik zie dat je dat speeltje graag wil hebben. Het ziet er heel leuk uit, maar we gaan het vandaag niet kopen\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stuur je kind de goede kant op<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Stuur je kind de kant op die je wil door bijvoorbeeld te zeggen \u201czullen we eens kijken of we een betere manier kunnen bedenken om dat te doen?\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bewaar \u201cNEE!\u201d voor noodgevallen<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

In een noodgeval is een luide \u201cNEE!\u201d waarschijnlijk juist het meest effectief. Je kunt in zulke situaties ook woorden gebruiken zoals \u201cSTOP!\u201d of \u201cBLIJF STAAN!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aan alle ouders: je taalgewoonten veranderen kan best een uitdaging zijn, maar oefening baart kunst. Geef jezelf de tijd. \ud83d\udc99<\/p>\n\n\n

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