{"id":24417,"date":"2022-07-22T04:19:45","date_gmt":"2022-07-22T02:19:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/?p=24417"},"modified":"2025-04-22T23:40:55","modified_gmt":"2025-04-22T21:40:55","slug":"pourquoi-lui-donner-moins-de-choix-aide-votre-enfant-a-etablir-son-independance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/fr\/developpement-de-lenfant\/pourquoi-lui-donner-moins-de-choix-aide-votre-enfant-a-etablir-son-independance\/","title":{"rendered":"Pourquoi lui donner moins de choix aide votre enfant \u00e0 \u00e9tablir son ind\u00e9pendance"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Cela semble peut-\u00eatre contre-intuitif, mais une fa\u00e7on d&rsquo;aider votre enfant \u00e0 gagner en ind\u00e9pendance consiste en fait \u00e0 r\u00e9duire ses choix. \u00c0 ses yeux, le monde est tr\u00e8s vaste et s&rsquo;il ne sait pas quoi choisir, il peut facilement se sentir submerg\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Les psychologues conseillent de donner \u00e0 un enfant deux choix \u00e0 la fois, trois au grand maximum, quand il doit prendre une d\u00e9cision* : \u00ab les enfants veulent et attendent de leurs parents qu&rsquo;ils structurent leur vie et prennent les principales d\u00e9cisions pour la famille. Cela les aide \u00e0 se sentir en s\u00e9curit\u00e9. Bien que ce soit tr\u00e8s bien de donner la parole aux enfants, avoir trop de choix (ou des choix trop importants) peut les submerger ou leur mettre une pression trop forte. \u00bb <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Voici quelques contextes du quotidien dans lesquels vous pouvez donner \u00e0 votre enfant de deux ans des choix limit\u00e9s, ainsi que des suggestions dans le langage que vous pouvez utiliser :<\/p>\n\n<div id=\"lightbox-inline-form-f9bd5f58-1218-4ff8-ae04-475107752cc4\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-s-habiller\">S\u2019habiller<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ab Est-ce que tu veux ton t-shirt ray\u00e9 ou le orange ? \u00bb Si votre enfant choisit une troisi\u00e8me option (la robe \u00e0 pois par exemple), il a quand m\u00eame particip\u00e9 au but final, qui est de s\u2019habiller. S\u2019il choisit quelque chose qui n\u2019est pas adapt\u00e9 (comme un maillot de bain en plein mois de janvier), essayez d\u2019honorer son choix tout en trouvant un compromis. Par exemple, vous pouvez lui proposer de porter son maillot de bain sous ses v\u00eatements, ou de le poser dans un endroit sp\u00e9cial pour qu\u2019il puisse le mettre \u00e0 la fin de la journ\u00e9e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"602\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=1024%2C602&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13636\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=1024%2C602&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=300%2C176&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=768%2C451&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=50%2C29&amp;ssl=1 50w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?w=1276&amp;ssl=1 1276w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-le-parc-et-d-autres-activit-s-amusantes\">Le parc et d\u2019autres activit\u00e9s amusantes<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Partir d\u2019un environnement amusant (un parc, une f\u00eate, ou tout autre endroit o\u00f9 votre enfant passe un bon moment), peut \u00eatre tr\u00e8s difficile pour les plus petits. \u00c0 cet \u00e2ge, ils ont une <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/fr\/developpement-de-lenfant\/quand-les-enfants-apprennent-ils-a-lire-lheure\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">compr\u00e9hension floue du temps<\/a>, mais pr\u00e9venir votre enfant deux minutes \u00e0 l\u2019avance (ou cinq, ou le chiffre de votre choix en-dessous de dix) l\u2019aidera \u00e0 comprendre qu\u2019il est bient\u00f4t l\u2019heure de partir. \u00ab<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li> On part dans deux minutes. Est-ce que tu veux faire un dernier tour de toboggan ou refaire de la balan\u00e7oire ? \u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab C\u2019est l\u2019heure de mettre tes <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/fr\/developpement-de-lenfant\/enfiler-ses-chaussettes-et-ses-chaussures\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">chaussures<\/a>. Est-ce que je te les mets ou est-ce que tu veux d\u2019abord essayer de le faire seul ? \u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-faire-le-m-nage\">Faire le m\u00e9nage<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Entre 24 et 30 mois, de nombreux enfants commencent \u00e0 ranger les choses naturellement, ils peuvent aussi avoir envie d\u2019aider \u00e0 faire le m\u00e9nage d\u2019autres fa\u00e7ons. Ce \u00ab m\u00e9nage \u00bb peut sembler d\u00e9sorganis\u00e9 et al\u00e9atoire, mais l&rsquo;objectif est dans la routine, pas dans la qualit\u00e9 d\u2019ex\u00e9cution. Si votre enfant est r\u00e9ticent au rangement, vous pouvez lui donner le choix entre deux t\u00e2ches simples pour l\u2019inciter \u00e0 participer \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00ab Est-ce que tu voudrais ranger les cubes, ou les livres ? \u00bb <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab Est-ce que tu veux passer ton balai, ou <a href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/fr\/products\/the-play-kits-the-enthusiast\">nettoyer la vitre avec la raclette<\/a> ? \u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-routine-du-coucher\">Routine du coucher<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"711\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=1200%2C711&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Un tout-petit affichant des cartes Lovevery au mur\" class=\"wp-image-23086\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=300%2C178&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=1024%2C607&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=768%2C455&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=50%2C30&amp;ssl=1 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">En photo : Cartes routines du <a href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/fr\/products\/the-play-kits-the-helper\">Kit de Jeu Le Petit Assistant<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n<div class=\"featured-products-block wp-block-acf-featured-products-v2-block is-style-showcase\" style=\"\">\n    <p class=\"featured-products-block__section-heading\"><\/p>\n        <div class=\"featured-products-v2-block__container featured-products-block wp-block-acf-featured-products-v2-block is-style-showcase\">\n                            <a class=\"featured-products-block__card\" href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/fr\/products\/the-play-kits-the-helper\" target=\"_blank\">\n                  <div class=\"featured-products-block__row\">\n                      <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--image\">\n                      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?fit=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"featured-products-block__image wp-post-image\" alt=\"The Helper\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\n                      <\/div>\n                      <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--text\">\n                        <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--info\">\n                          <p class=\"featured-products-block__product-title\">Kit de Jeu Le Petit Assistant<\/p>\n                                                                                                                                    <p class=\"featured-products-block__product-excerpt\">\u00c0 deux ans, votre enfant est en demande d&rsquo;ind\u00e9pendance et entre dans le monde des \u00ab Grands \u00bb. Ce kit r\u00e9pond \u00e0 sa curiosit\u00e9 naturelle avec des activit\u00e9s du quotidien inspir\u00e9es de la p\u00e9dagogie Montessori. Il lui propose des outils pour d\u00e9velopper un sentiment de s\u00e9curit\u00e9 au travers des routines.<\/p>\n                                                  <\/div>\n                        <div class=\"featured-products-block__product-link\">Learn more<\/div>\n                      <\/div>\n                  <\/div>\n                <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>M\u00eame un rituel du coucher bien \u00e9tabli peut \u00eatre l\u2019occasion d\u2019offrir des choix \u00e0 votre enfant. Il faut cependant veiller \u00e0 ce que le nombre de choix soit limit\u00e9 et qu\u2019ils ne s\u2019\u00e9cartent pas trop de l\u2019objectif d\u2019aller (calmement) au lit. <a href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/fr\/products\/the-play-kits-the-helper\">Les Cartes routines<\/a> pr\u00e9sentent des photos claires et pr\u00e9cises d\u2019\u00e9l\u00e9ments courants de routines que vous pouvez avoir dans la maison. Vous pouvez les accrocher au mur (ou simplement les tenir) et les utiliser comme support lorsque vous proposez des choix \u00e0 votre enfant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00ab Est-ce que tu veux commencer ou finir de te brosser les dents ? \u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab On va lire un livre ce soir. Tu peux choisir entre ces deux : lequel tu voudrais ? \u00bb S&rsquo;il insiste pour lire les deux, essayez d\u2019\u00eatre coh\u00e9rent. Si vous c\u00e9dez toujours et acceptez de lire deux livres, votre enfant peut s\u2019attendre \u00e0 ce que ce soit le cas tous les soirs ; il a besoin de coh\u00e9rence et les changements peuvent le perturber.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Proposer des choix peut \u00eatre une excellente strat\u00e9gie lorsque votre enfant retarde certains moments de votre routine. S&rsquo;il joue alors qu&rsquo;il est l\u2019heure d\u2019aller au lit, vous pouvez lui dire \u00ab est-ce que tu veux aller dans ton lit tout seul ou est-ce que tu veux que je te porte ? \u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-go-ters\">Go\u00fbters<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c0 cet \u00e2ge, de nombreux enfants adorent \u00eatre impliqu\u00e9s dans la pr\u00e9paration des repas. Si vous \u00eates press\u00e9, cela peut \u00eatre compliqu\u00e9, mais voici quelques fa\u00e7ons simples de donner le choix \u00e0 votre enfant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00ab Est-ce que tu veux \u00e9plucher cette banane ou la couper en morceaux ? \u00bb Dans la cuisine, il peut arriver qu\u2019il choisisse les deux options, ce n\u2019est pas grave.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab Est-ce que tu veux de la pomme ou de l\u2019orange pour ton go\u00fbter ? \u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab Est-ce que tu veux manger ton go\u00fbter sur le plan de travail ou \u00e0 table ? \u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><em>*Par<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/joyful-parenting\/201602\/5-guidelines-giving-kids-choices\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Dr. Erin Leyba<\/em><\/a> <em>LCSW, Docteur chez Psychology Today<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"featured-products-block wp-block-acf-featured-products-v2-block\" style=\"\">\n    <p class=\"featured-products-block__section-heading\"><\/p>\n        <div class=\"featured-products-v2-block__container featured-products-block wp-block-acf-featured-products-v2-block\">\n                            <a class=\"featured-products-block__card\" href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/products\/the-play-kits\" target=\"_blank\">\n                  <div class=\"featured-products-block__row\">\n                      <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--image\">\n                      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?fit=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"featured-products-block__image wp-post-image\" alt=\"The Babbler\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\n                      <\/div>\n                      <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--text\">\n                        <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--info\">\n                          <p class=\"featured-products-block__product-title\">Les Kits de Jeu<\/p>\n                                                                                                                                    <p class=\"featured-products-block__product-excerpt\">Lib\u00e9rez le potentiel de votre enfant gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 nos jouets con\u00e7us par des experts de The Play Kits.<\/p>\n                                                  <\/div>\n                        <div class=\"featured-products-block__product-link\">Learn more<\/div>\n                      <\/div>\n                  <\/div>\n                <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Les psychologues conseillent de donner 2 choix \u00e0 un enfant quand il doit prendre une d\u00e9cision. 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