{"id":20752,"date":"2022-03-11T10:07:25","date_gmt":"2022-03-11T09:07:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/?p=20752"},"modified":"2025-04-21T23:55:55","modified_gmt":"2025-04-21T21:55:55","slug":"ce-quil-faut-faire-et-ne-pas-faire-quand-on-dit-non","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/fr\/developpement-de-lenfant\/ce-quil-faut-faire-et-ne-pas-faire-quand-on-dit-non\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce qu’il faut faire et ne pas faire quand on dit \u00ab\u00a0non\u00a0\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Si vous dites \u00e0 un enfant \u00ab\u00a0attention, ne renverse pas \u00e7a !\u00a0\u00bb, vous allez peut-\u00eatre lui faire penser \u00e0 faire l\u2019inverse<\/em> car il aura probablement entendu \u201crenverse \u00e7a\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pourquoi dire \u00ab\u00a0non\u00a0\u00bb moins souvent est important : <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Utiliser le mot \u00ab\u00a0non\u00a0\u00bb ou d\u2019autres formules n\u00e9gatives comme \u00ab\u00a0ne pas\u00a0\u00bb et \u00ab\u00a0ne devrait pas\u00a0\u00bb est un r\u00e9flexe que nous avons tous par habitude. Cependant, vous pouvez limiter leur utilisation tout en fixant des limites saines pour votre enfant. L’objectif de dire \u00ab\u00a0non\u00a0\u00bb moins souvent ? Faire en sorte que votre enfant \u00e9vite de faire ce que vous ne voulez pas qu’il fasse mais ce que vous voulez qu’il fasse<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n

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Voici comment dire non \u00e0 votre enfant moins souvent :<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Parlez en termes positifs<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Parler en termes positifs permet \u00e0 votre enfant de r\u00e9soudre des probl\u00e8mes et de d\u00e9velopper son esprit critique. Au lieu d’entendre ce qu’il ne peut pas faire, il peut se concentrer sur toutes les autres<\/em> possibilit\u00e9s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Changez votre langage<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Au lieu de dire \u00ab\u00a0attention, ne renverse pas \u00e7a !\u00a0\u00bb, vous pouvez par exemple dire : \u00ab\u00a0Merci d’avoir utilis\u00e9 tes deux mains pour garder le lait dans ta tasse.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00e9crivez ce que vous souhaitez<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Les recherches montrent que les adultes n’\u00e9coutent que des parties de phrases. C\u2019est encore plus vrai chez les tout-petits. D\u00e9crire \u00e0 votre enfant le comportement que vous voulez voir \u00e9vite de sugg\u00e9rer ou de renforcer ce que vous ne voulez pas qu’il fasse. Autant que possible, montrez \u00e0 votre tout-petit ce que vous voulez qu’il fasse \u00e0 la place : \u00ab\u00a0Voici comment faire des caresses\u00a0\u00bb (au lieu de tirer la queue du chien) ou \u00ab\u00a0Voici comment empiler les blocs\u00a0\u00bb (au lieu de les lancer).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne le laissez pas devenir herm\u00e9tique au non<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Utilis\u00e9 trop souvent le mot \u201cnon\u00a0\u00bb peut perdre tout son sens et rendre votre enfant indiff\u00e9rent. Autrement dit, votre tout-petit peut devenir herm\u00e9tique au \u201cnon\u201d syst\u00e9matique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Expliquez pourquoi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

En expliquant pourquoi vous n’\u00eates pas d’accord avec quelque chose, vous aidez votre enfant \u00e0 apprendre \u00e0 faire de meilleurs choix. Par exemple : \u00ab\u00a0Enlever nos chaussures en rentrant \u00e0 la maison aide \u00e0 garder le sol propre.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reconnaissez ses sentiments<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Au lieu de dire \u00ab\u00a0non, tu ne peux pas avoir \u00e7a\u00a0\u00bb lorsque votre enfant r\u00e9clame quelque chose dans le magasin, essayez de dire \u00ab\u00a0je vois que tu veux vraiment ce jouet. Il a l’air vraiment sp\u00e9cial, mais nous n’allons pas l’acheter aujourd’hui\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recadrez<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"Femme<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Reformulez et parlez de ce que vous voulez qu’il fasse en disant \u00ab\u00a0voyons si nous pouvons trouver une meilleure fa\u00e7on de le faire\u00a0\u00bb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gardez le \u00ab\u00a0NON !\u00a0\u00bb pour les urgences<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

En cas d’urgence, un \u00ab\u00a0NON !\u00a0\u00bb passionn\u00e9 peut \u00eatre la bonne chose \u00e0 faire. Pensez aussi \u00e0 utiliser des mots comme \u00ab\u00a0STOP !\u00a0\u00bb ou \u00ab\u00a0RESTEZ ICI !\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Note aux parents : Changer ses habitudes linguistiques peut \u00eatre difficile ; cette fa\u00e7on de parler demande de la pratique. Soyez patient avec vous-m\u00eame \ud83d\udc99<\/p>\n\n\n

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