{"id":19512,"date":"2022-02-04T18:04:16","date_gmt":"2022-02-04T17:04:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/?p=19512"},"modified":"2025-04-22T23:41:24","modified_gmt":"2025-04-22T21:41:24","slug":"por-que-menos-opciones-ayudan-a-tu-hijo-a-establecer-su-independencia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/es\/desarrollo-del-bebe\/por-que-menos-opciones-ayudan-a-tu-hijo-a-establecer-su-independencia\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 menos opciones ayudan a tu hijo a establecer su independencia"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Aunque pueda parecer contradictorio, reduciendo las opciones de tu hija o hijo, en realidad, le ayudas a aumentar su independencia. Para ellos, el mundo es muy grande y cuando no saben qu\u00e9 elegir, pueden sentirse f\u00e1cilmente abrumados. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Los psic\u00f3logos recomiendan que cuando tu hija o hijo quiera tomar decisiones, le des solo dos opciones a la vez (tres como m\u00e1ximo)*: \u00abLos ni\u00f1os quieren y esperan que sus madres y padres les proporcionen una estructura y tomen decisiones familiares importantes; les ayuda a sentirse seguros\u00bb. Aunque es estupendo dar a los ni\u00f1os la posibilidad de opinar, demasiadas opciones (o demasiado amplias) pueden abrumarlos o presionarlos demasiado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aqu\u00ed os proponemos algunas oportunidades cotidianas para dar a tu hija o hijo de dos a\u00f1os opciones limitadas, junto con sugerencias sobre el lenguaje que puedes utilizar:<\/p>\n\n\n<div id=\"lightbox-inline-form-2e0401d6-348f-42fb-8c39-ce4d4f3b00e6\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-vestirse\">Vestirse<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ab\u00bfQuieres tu camisa de rayas o tu camisa naranja?\u00bb Si elige una tercera opci\u00f3n (como su vestido de lunares), contin\u00faa participando en el objetivo general, que es vestirse. Si elige algo que no funciona por la raz\u00f3n que sea (como un traje de ba\u00f1o en enero), intenta respetar su elecci\u00f3n y encontrar una contrapartida. Por ejemplo, tal vez pueda llevar el ba\u00f1ador debajo de la camisa y los pantalones; o buscar un lugar especial donde dejarlo para que pueda pon\u00e9rselo una vez que llegu\u00e9is a casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"602\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=1024%2C602&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13636\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=1024%2C602&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=300%2C176&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=768%2C451&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?resize=50%2C29&amp;ssl=1 50w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Olivia-thumbnail.png?w=1276&amp;ssl=1 1276w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-el-parque-y-otros-lugares-divertidos\">El parque y otros lugares divertidos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Abandonar un entorno divertido (un parque, una fiesta o cualquier otra cosa en la que est\u00e9n profundamente absortos) puede ser realmente dif\u00edcil para los ni\u00f1os peque\u00f1os. Su <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/es\/desarrollo-del-bebe\/cuando-aprenden-los-ninos-a-entender-el-concepto-de-tiempo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">comprensi\u00f3n del tiempo<\/a> es difusa, pero ofrecerle a tu hijo un aviso de dos minutos (o cinco, o cualquier n\u00famero consistente por debajo de diez) le ayuda a entender que se ir\u00e1 pronto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li> \u00abNos vamos en dos minutos. \u00bfQuieres bajar otra vez por el tobog\u00e1n o columpiarte un poco m\u00e1s?\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00abEs hora de ponerse los <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/es\/desarrollo-del-bebe\/asi-es-como-se-ponen-los-zapatos-y-los-calcetines\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">zapatos.<\/a> \u00bfTe los pongo yo o quieres probar t\u00fa primero?\u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-limpieza\">Limpieza<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Entre los 24 y los 30 meses, muchos ni\u00f1os peque\u00f1os empiezan a guardar las cosas por s\u00ed solos y tambi\u00e9n pueden querer ayudar en otros aspectos de la limpieza. Esta \u00ablimpieza\u00bb puede parecer desorganizada y desordenada, pero el objetivo es la rutina, no la limpieza perfecta. Si se resisten a limpiar, darles a elegir entre dos peque\u00f1as tareas puede, de hecho, aumentar las posibilidades de que ayuden \ud83d\ude42 .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00ab\u00bfQuieres guardar los bloques o guardar los libros?\u00bb <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u00bfQuieres barrer con la escoba o <a href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/es\/products\/the-play-kits-the-enthusiast\">rociar y limpiar<\/a> los cristales?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-rutina-para-ir-a-la-cama\">Rutina para ir a la cama<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"711\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=1200%2C711&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Un ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o pegando en la pared tarjetas de Lovevery\" class=\"wp-image-19515\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=300%2C178&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=1024%2C607&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=768%2C455&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/blog-8.267457_VS_R1.jpg?resize=50%2C30&amp;ssl=1 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">En foto: Tarjetas de rutinas del <a href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/es\/products\/the-play-kits-the-helper\">Kit de Juego El Ayudante<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Incluso un ritual bien establecido para irse a la cama puede incluir algunas opciones para tu hija o hijo, siempre que no sean excesivas y que las opciones no se desv\u00eden demasiado del objetivo de irse (tranquilamente) a la cama. <a href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/es\/products\/the-play-kits-the-helper\">Las Tarjetas de rutina<\/a> presentan fotos claras y precisas de elementos comunes de las rutinas en el hogar. Puedes pegarlas en la pared (o simplemente sostenerlas) y utilizarlas para se\u00f1alarlas cuando le ofrezcas opciones a tu hijo.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"featured-products-block wp-block-acf-featured-products-v2-block is-style-showcase\" style=\"\">\n    <p class=\"featured-products-block__section-heading\"><\/p>\n        <div class=\"featured-products-v2-block__container featured-products-block wp-block-acf-featured-products-v2-block is-style-showcase\">\n                            <a class=\"featured-products-block__card\" href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/es\/products\/the-play-kits-the-helper\" target=\"_blank\">\n                  <div class=\"featured-products-block__row\">\n                      <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--image\">\n                      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?fit=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"featured-products-block__image wp-post-image\" alt=\"The Helper\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Kit11_UK.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\n                      <\/div>\n                      <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--text\">\n                        <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--info\">\n                          <p class=\"featured-products-block__product-title\">Kit de juego El ayudante<\/p>\n                                                                                                                                    <p class=\"featured-products-block__product-excerpt\">Tu hijo puede estar ansioso por independizarse y entrar en el mundo de los \u00abni\u00f1os grandes\u00bb. Este kit de juego responde a la curiosidad natural de tu hijo de dos a\u00f1os con herramientas y actividades cotidianas del m\u00e9todo Montessori, para as\u00ed desarrollar la seguridad en sus rutinas.<\/p>\n                                                  <\/div>\n                        <div class=\"featured-products-block__product-link\">Learn more<\/div>\n                      <\/div>\n                  <\/div>\n                <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00ab\u00bfQuieres empezar a lavarte los dientes o terminar?\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00abEsta noche vamos a leer un libro. Aqu\u00ed hay dos que puedes elegir: \u00bfCu\u00e1l quieres?\u00bb Si insiste en los dos, intenta ser coherente. Si siempre cedes y lees los dos, es posible que tu hijo pronto espere dos libros cada noche; ans\u00eda la consistencia y suele sentirse desconcertado cuando las cosas cambian.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ofrecerle opciones puede ser una gran estrategia cuando tu peque\u00f1o retrasa partes de su rutina. Si est\u00e1 jugando cuando llega la hora de meterse en la cuna o en la cama, puedes decirle \u00ab\u00bfquieres ir a la cama o quieres que te lleve?\u00bb.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-merienda\">Merienda<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A muchos ni\u00f1os de esta edad les encanta participar en la preparaci\u00f3n de la comida. Esto puede suponer un reto cuando tienes prisa, pero existen formas sencillas de darles algunas opciones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00ab\u00bfQuieres pelar este pl\u00e1tano o partirlo en trozos?\u00bb En la cocina, existen veces que tu hija o hijo puede elegir ambas opciones, y eso tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 bien.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00ab\u00bfQuieres rodajas de manzana o gajos de naranja para la merienda?\u00bb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00bfQuieres comer tu merienda en la barra o en la mesa?\u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>*<em>Del<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/joyful-parenting\/201602\/5-guidelines-giving-kids-choices\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Dr. Erin Leyba<\/em><\/a><em> LCSW, Doctor en Filosof\u00eda en Psychology Today<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"featured-products-block wp-block-acf-featured-products-v2-block\" style=\"\">\n    <p class=\"featured-products-block__section-heading\"><\/p>\n        <div class=\"featured-products-v2-block__container featured-products-block wp-block-acf-featured-products-v2-block\">\n                            <a class=\"featured-products-block__card\" href=\"https:\/\/lovevery.eu\/products\/the-play-kits\" target=\"_blank\">\n                  <div class=\"featured-products-block__row\">\n                      <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--image\">\n                      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?fit=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"featured-products-block__image wp-post-image\" alt=\"The Babbler\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.lovevery.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Kit7_Babbler-Flaylay.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\n                      <\/div>\n                      <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--text\">\n                        <div class=\"featured-products-block__column--info\">\n                          <p class=\"featured-products-block__product-title\">Kits de juego<\/p>\n                                                                                                                                    <p class=\"featured-products-block__product-excerpt\">Libera el potencial de tu hijo con nuestros juguetes dise\u00f1ados por expertos de The Play Kits.<\/p>\n                                                  <\/div>\n                        <div class=\"featured-products-block__product-link\">Learn more<\/div>\n                      <\/div>\n                  <\/div>\n                <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Los psic\u00f3logos recomiendan dar a tu hijo solo dos opciones cuando quiera tomar decisiones. 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