{"id":19088,"date":"2022-02-03T20:34:40","date_gmt":"2022-02-03T19:34:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/?p=19088"},"modified":"2025-04-21T23:56:24","modified_gmt":"2025-04-21T21:56:24","slug":"cuando-si-y-cuando-no-hay-que-decir-un-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lovevery.eu\/es\/desarrollo-del-bebe\/cuando-si-y-cuando-no-hay-que-decir-un-no\/","title":{"rendered":"Cu\u00e1ndo s\u00ed y cu\u00e1ndo no hay que decir un \u201cno\u201d \ud83d\ude09"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Cuando le dices a tu hija o hijo peque\u00f1o \u201cCuidado: \u00a1que no se te caiga eso!\u201d puede que en realidad le est\u00e9s dando a entender que s\u00ed puede<\/em> tirarlo. Es probable que solamente haya o\u00eddo \u201cte caiga eso\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por qu\u00e9 decir \u201cNo\u201d con menor frecuencia es importante: <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Aunque decir la palabra \u201cno\u201d \u2014 junto con frases similares como \u201cno hagas X\u201d o \u201cno deber\u00edas X\u201d \u2014 nos sale sin pensar, como un acto reflejo, s\u00ed puedes reducir su uso y a la vez ponerle l\u00edmites saludables a tu ni\u00f1a o ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o. Lo que pretendemos conseguir utilizando menos la palabra \u201cno\u201d es, en realidad, redirigir a tu ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o hacia lo que s\u00ed<\/em> quieres que haga, alej\u00e1ndole de lo que no quieres que haga.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Aqu\u00ed te explicamos c\u00f3mo decirle a tu ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o \u201cno\u201d con menos frecuencia<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Habla en t\u00e9rminos positivos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Hablar en t\u00e9rminos positivos permite que tu ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o resuelva problemas y desarrolle habilidades de pensamiento cr\u00edtico. En lugar de o\u00edr lo que no puede hacer, ser\u00e1 capaz de centrarse en todo aquello que s\u00ed puede<\/em>hacer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cambia tu lenguaje<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

En lugar de decirle \u201cTen cuidado de que no se te caiga eso\u201d podr\u00edas decir algo como: \u201cGracias por llevar el bol despacio con las dos manos ya que as\u00ed seguro que llega toda la sopa a la mesa\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Describe lo que quieres<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Los estudios indican que los adultos s\u00f3lo escuchan partes de las oraciones, y esto se intensifica a\u00fan m\u00e1s en las ni\u00f1as y ni\u00f1os peque\u00f1os. Describiendo a tu hijo el comportamiento que quieres ver en \u00e9l, evitas reforzar o hacer referencia a aquello que no quieres que haga. En la medida de lo posible, muestra a tu ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o lo que s\u00ed que quieres que haga: \u201cAcariciamos al perro suavemente\u201d (en lugar de tirarle de la cola) o \u201cAs\u00ed es c\u00f3mo apilamos los bloques\u201d (en lugar de lanzarlos).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No dejes que se vuelva inmune<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Si la palabra \u201cno\u201d se utiliza demasiado a menudo, puede que haga que tu ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o desconecte: esta palabra pierde su significado para \u00e9l. Dicho de otro modo, se vuelve inmune a ella.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Expl\u00edcale por qu\u00e9<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Explicarle por qu\u00e9 algo no te parece bien va a ayudar a tu ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o a que, con el tiempo, aprenda a tomar mejores decisiones. Por ejemplo: \u201cSi nos sacamos los zapatos al entrar en casa, ayudamos a mantener el piso limpio\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Valida sus sentimientos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

En lugar de decirle \u201cNo, eso no puede ser\u201d cuando tu ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o pide algo en una tienda, intenta decirle \u201cMe doy cuenta de que realmente quieres ese juguete. Es muy bonito, la verdad, pero no vamos a comprarlo hoy\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reformula<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"Mujer<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Reconduce la situaci\u00f3n y habla de lo que quieres que haga diciendo algo como \u201cVamos a ver si encontramos una manera mejor de hacerlo\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guarda el \u201c\u00a1NO!\u201d para emergencias<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

En caso de emergencia, un \u201c\u00a1NO!\u201d a pleno pulm\u00f3n puede ser pertinente. Prueba tambi\u00e9n con frases como \u201c\u00a1PARA!\u201d o \u201c\u00a1QU\u00c9DATE AH\u00cd!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nota a madres y padres: cambiar los h\u00e1bitos del habla no es f\u00e1cil: hablar as\u00ed requiere pr\u00e1ctica. S\u00e9 paciente contigo mismo \ud83d\udc99.<\/p>\n\n\n

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